Subject to this rant: Trust
My favorite thing about my relationship is the amount of trust we have. I see so many people messing everything up because they have trust issues. Why do that to YOURSELF? It causes problems in the relationship. It causes unnecessary worry and stress. Are you worried that person is going to cheat? Let me tell you a secret…if someone wants to cheat, they will cheat. No matter how many times you check their phone, waste time seeing if they are where they said they would be, or question them about every detail. The ONLY way you even have a chance of the other person not cheating is make them as happy as you possibly could, trust them like you want to be trusted, forget about every bad relationship you have been through. Trust is a very important part of a GOOD relationship. Stop making yourself miserable. Stop trying to find problems that ain’t there. Do you realize how bad you make yourself look?
Part 2- Subject: personal space
My boyfriend and I live together. Therefore we see each other on a daily basis. When we go in public you won’t see us shoved up each others butts. Does that mean we ain’t happy? No! That means when we are out with friends we enjoy being with our friends. Our relationship is great at home. Everyone needs their personal space. Everyone needs friends. Everyone needs time away from their boyfriend/girlfriend. Be confident in yourself, and in your relationship enough to let the other breath away from you.
I’ll end this rant by saying… You have to be happy in life before you can make anyone else happy. Stop stressing about stuff that probably won’t happen. Love yourself and share that love! No one like a miserable person!
BaHaBritter 